My friend Michael came over yesterday to visit and walked in with my mail.

“LOOK-The new Victoria’s Secret catalog is here!”, he announced like a kid with a toy.

“That’s good honey, why don’t we go the mall today? It is Take A Sissy Shopping day ya know?”

“Oh I’m not really ready right now, thank you anyway. Can I have this?”

“Sure you can have it, why don’t we look at it together, and I’ll tell you what I think would look good on you, would you like that?”

He looked like he just won the lottery, and smiled and nodded, giggling a bit as we sat down on the couch.

I remember all the guys that told me that these catalogs are like porn to them. From sneaking into the old Sears catalog as kids, to the Sunday circulars with lingerie and women’s clothing ads. They told me that they would much rather have a lingerie catalog like this than any men’s magazine in the world. And I understood.

As we were looking at all the pretty bras and panties, and the beautiful models, my first thought was that I really didn’t need anything new right now, but I still liked to shop. And my next thought was that I too liked to look at gorgeous women in their underwear! The big difference was that I didn’t have to hide it like they do, and that I was more attracted to the women than their clothes.

I suddenly felt a little bad for my cross dressing friend, and all the difficulties he must face having this fetish. But as we looked through the catalog, and discussed his favorite panties, he went into girl mode and it was as if he was in another world. If this is all it takes to make someone happy, I thought, then he can have all the catalogs and lingerie he wants!

Life can be so simple-yet so complex.

Help the bears, help yourself.

This advice is coming from a recovering alcoholic. I never got arrested for Drunk driving in over a decade of doing it, but that was just plain luck. I wrecked several cars, and did other things I just decided not to mention. If you’re at the point where you want to know whether its better to refuse the breathalyzer test or not then you are already in trouble. Just think about the fines and losing your license for a year, not to mention doubled insurance rates and possibly killing someone else. Its not that hard to make arrangements and you can go out and drink your face off.

Happy New Year!

This is the ticket! I wish I saw this before Christmas, I would have got all my sissies one of these collars as a present. Now they have to buy their own. Next month on TSS (take a sissy shopping day), I’m going to be strutting through the mall with whoever is brave enough to wear this AND a pink leash as we shop till we drop!