The ‘whys’ of Forced Feminization

Have you ever wondered just how your forced feminization fantasies began, and how they evolved? Maybe you started by simply putting on a pair of panties, and admiring yourself in the mirror. It felt fantastic and you looked as cute as a button in that frilly nightie didn’t you?

Then one day just dressing up just didn’t seem to be enough. You had to play a little story in your head, a very special story.

One or more of your female friends or neighbors pop in and just happen to catch you prancing around the room in your lingerie, or is it their lingerie? They are going to tell everyone-EVERYONE! The whole world will know your secret, and you will never, ever be able to live it down. Your friends, co workers, family, and everyone in the state will know that you are a panty wearing sissy, and never let you forget it.

But wait-maybe there’s a way out of this mess. You plead with the girls: “Please-please don’t tell everyone, I’ll do anything you want, anything you say, anything.”

“Hmmmm,” they think for a second. “Maybe you need to be taught what being a girl is really like. OK panty boy, you’ll do anything we say? Well, we have an idea.”

Of course that idea is to transform you completely into a girl. COMPLETELY!

Years go by and although there are probably many variations to your fantasy, in essence you have to be feminized, and forced to get properly excited.

You see a picture in a woman’s magazine at the doctors office of a very pretty but very angry looking woman, and you imagine her holding you by the throat while she puts bright red lipstick on you.

You’re watching a movie about cheerleaders, and you fantasize about them capturing you and turning you into one of them. Your life will never be the same.

On Sunday you go right for the color circulars in the newspaper and look at all the pretty dresses, swimsuits, and lingerie. You need to be put into panties and taken to the store-ASAP!

Or maybe, you’re sitting at your computer wearing your favorite babydoll and matching panties, listening to Forced Feminization MP3′s, and rocking back and forth in ecstasy with a vibrating Rude Boy prostate stimulator up your ass.

And yet you still don’t really know why you have this particular fetish. Why it is so irresistible to you. Why you spend hours and hours and hours imagining all the ways you can be teased, trained, transformed, and tormented through forced feminization.

Well I am finally going to tell you why. Why it started, why it is so exciting, and why you cannot fight it.

Wait a minute here, did you say that you don’t have a vibrating Rude Boy prostate stimulator up your ass?

If that’s the case, then the question is not why-but why not?

An Afternoon with Miss Teresa-Available Now!

I’ve finished working on a new MP3 that will hopefully appeal to everyone. This is not a Forced Feminization story.

I wrote this because of all the people that ask for private sessions and makeovers, and I just don’t have time for everyone. Besides, most of you would chicken out anyway.

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An Afternoon with Miss Teresa

The Crossdressing Conspiracy

I know what you’re thinking, not another conspiracy? Yes, between the issue with Dilbert’s boss who is now perfectly fine, and the whole Area 51 thing which is probably going to be a tourist attraction in the near future, its all very confusing.

But THIS IS INSANE! I was browsing through an online lingerie store this morning and could not believe what I saw on sale. Adam & Eve lingerie is selling a Satin Cami and Tap Short set for $32.95. Now what exactly is the story here?

You’ve gone through life with the impression that women think crossdressing is at the very least, strange.

Perhaps you innocently go to Victoria’s Secret to buy yourself some pretty things. You’re having a conversation with one of the younger salesgirls about panties when the manager walks up to you and asks if your actually wear panties. You say yes.

OUT! She makes a tremendous fuss over your fetish and insists that you leave the store immediately (The cute salesgirl giggles).

So you say to yourself: Well that sucks, and it does.

And yet here they are offering one of the sexiest red satin Cami’s I’ve ever seen, AND a pair of matching tap pants at a crazy cheap price! Just what are they thinking? I see a mixed message here.

They know that a Cami is one of the most versatile pieces of lingerie you can have. They also know that tap pants are just perfect for crossdressers because they are comfortable and give you plenty of room to arrange yourself. Then to top it off, they make them in red satin, in sizes small to extra large, and sell them for the price of a case of beer and a pizza!

Did you know that the head of these outfits are mostly women? Are they purposely going around saying that men in lingerie is a sick, twisted thing, then offering these sweet deals just to mess with your head? I think so.

Ask 10 women what they think of boys that like to dress as girls and see what they say. 9 of them will make grunting noises and possibly spit (they disapprove). The remaining one will say: “Well lets show them what its like to be a girl. Lets dress him up and take him to the beauty salon, lets have a party and….” Well I don’t want to bore you with the details.

I think that you should consider not buying any new lingerie until all women admit that crossdressers are cool. Until they have panty sales in local stores just for men. Until they have “Girls” night every week at bars for men that are wearing lipstick.

Either that, or find that one woman in ten and marry her!

Well, surprise-surprise. The Flawless Satin Cami & Tap Shorts are on back order. Its a conspiracy I tell ya! Just to see for yourself go take a quick look at Adam & Eve. A quick look. Remember, if you don’t fight the conspiracy then you’re a part of it.

Transvestic Fetishism-Shut up and put on your panties!

I seriously doubt it, but it may be possible that you’ve never heard the term Transvestic Fetishism. If not, its because you’re spending all your time online looking at crazy captions, outrageous stories, and possibly watching forced feminization videos.

According to Wikipedia: Transvestic fetishism is having a sexual or erotic interest in cross-dressing. It differs from cross-dressing for entertainment or other purposes that do not involve sexual arousal and is categorized as a paraphilia in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of the American Psychiatric Association.

Butt wait-there’s more!

Transvestic fetishism refers specifically to cross-dressing; sexual arousal in response to individual garments is fetishism. Some male transvestic fetishists collect women’s clothing, e.g. nightgowns, babydolls, slips, brassieres, and other types of nightwear, lingerie, stockings, pantyhose, shoes, and boots, items of a distinct feminine look and feel. They may dress in these feminine garments and take photographs of themselves while living out their secret fantasies.

There are two key criteria before a psychiatric diagnosis of “transvestic fetishism” is made:

1-Recurrent, intense sexually arousing fantasies, urges, or behaviour, involving cross-dressing.
2-This causes clinically significant distress or impairment, whether socially, at work, or elsewhere.

So now what? You have a paraphilia. DON’T LOOK IT UP. A paraphilia is more or less a fetish. Congratulations on having one of the most creative fetishes there is. I think so anyway.

“Cause significant distress” ….hmmmm. So what does that mean now? Are you a complete psycho? Should you be put in a straightjacket? Should you try to never, ever think about such things again?

Are you going to stop looking at magazine ads for bright, red lipstick and imagine it being carefully put on you while your arms are tied behind your back with silk scarves?

Are you going to stop going straight for the women’s clothing circulars to look at pictures of pretty blouses and dresses before you even read the newspaper?

Are you going to pretend that you don’t want to be caught in panties, blackmailed, then punished by being transformed completely into a beautiful, very feminine woman?

Cum now, its way too late for that. The only thing you should be concerned with is if it causes distress and trouble in your everyday life. This could be from guilt (a biggie), a partner or spouse that either doesn’t know or doesn’t get it, or the fact that whenever you see a pair of nice breasts you scream out: “I WANT TITS!”

Try to avoid that if possible. As for what to do about this complicated, bizarre, stressful situation, I have a simple suggestion.

Shut up and put on your panties!

How to find women to feminize you

I’ll bet you’ve asked yourself this question, many times. As usual I have some suggestions.

If you have a job chances are you work with all different kinds of women. Single women, married women, lonely women, and sexy women. This is the perfect place to look.

The women you work with are probably hard working, friendly people. Just what you need.

The first thing to do is become friends with them. When they think about you or talk about you over coffee you want them to say: “He’s really a very sweet guy.”

How do you achieve that you ask? Slowly. Your goal is to be friendly and attentive without being creepy.

Step 1: Compliments. The idea here is to be casual, and not needy or falling all over these poor girls. Mention things about their appearance. Most women spend hours buying clothes and doing their hair and makeup, and will genuinely appreciate the right kind of compliment.

You might say: “Is that a new hairstyle, it looks great on you.” Even if its not you’re off to a good start. If she says no, you now have the opportunity to say something like: “Oh, well you look great today as usual.” Then smile and walk away.

Compliments about their lipstick or heels might freak them out so stick to their appearance, perfume, or even their smile. Remember, don’t push it. Say something nice and go back to work. Its very important that you do this right.

You should also offer to pick things up for them while you’re out on your lunch break. Simply mention that you’re on your way out and ask if anyone would like anything from the store.

Step 2: The Plan. This will take some nerve and talent but don’t let that stop you. Go over it in your mind until you have the whole thing down cold.

Not only are you a very sweet guy, but you’ve decided to go back to college at night to improve yourself. One of the courses is in Abnormal Psychology and you can really use the help of some female friends.

You’ve been assigned a study of fetishes, cross dressing in particular, and have to complete a long paper by the end of the term. Having an extended deadline is great because you’ll need to take this slow once again.

You can begin by mentioning it as casually as possible, then leave it alone unless asked, and even then its good to let the topic get around for a while.

At some point you should approach the woman you feel the most comfortable with and ask for help. Don’t worry, by the end of the day every women in your office, factory, or sardine canning plant will know all about this.

You want to know how women feel about cross dressing (its for the paper). Do they think its strange? Do they think it might be fun? Ask them how they think a person could develop such a deep desire to wear women’s clothes.

You want to just ask a quick question here and there and gauge the reaction. A little at a time, just like the way you want to be feminized. Unless the ladies have a lot of free time during the day, which is very possible, don’t push too hard. After all, this is just one of the many things you’re working on including your job.

Later on, you bring up forced feminization.

“Forced Feminization, gosh whats that?” they ask so innocently you want to break down and kiss their stockinged feet. DON’T. It will just mess up all the hard work you’ve put into this.

You can say something like: “I was doing some research online and apparently some men have a fantasy about being forced to dress like a girl. Silly isn’t it?”

Now, if you’ve played your cards right you should have at least one woman interested, if only out of sheer curiosity. If you feel confident, think about pointing her to a reference book or website.

This whole thing may seem very complicated and extreme to you. Just as blackmailing you into becoming a complete sissy maid may seem to them.

PERSEVERE!

If everything goes right you may just get lucky. One day you and a beautiful secretary are discussing the merits of silk scarves over rope for bondage, and the next you’re in her living room wearing her blouse!

À cheval donné on ne regarde pas les dents!