He’s a Backdoor Man

Have you read any good books lately? Something stimulating that actually made you feel special? Those books can be very hard to find, much like your G-spot.

What exactly is a G-spot you may ask? A guy’s G-Spot, also known as the P-Spot, is his prostate gland. That’s the gland responsible for producing the majority of his seminal fluid, and it’s also one of his most sensitive erogenous zones.

Sounds complicated doesn’t it? Maybe you need a book.

TA DA!

Book Smart: The Other Door

OK great, so now you have a book, butt wait….there’s more. Inside this very special book is everything you need to put your new knowledge to practical use.

This is not your average book though, it comes with training beads, a soft and pliable butt-plug (not too big and not too small), a set of anal beads, and even a packet of water-based lube.

The Other Door anal starter kit

Butt wait….there’s more. This is impressive; the book is actually the stash! It looks like a normal book, but it has a magnetic clasp and holds everything neatly and out of sight until you’re ready to learn and explore.

Ain’t technology wonderful?

Now I’d like to leave you with a final thought. Lets say you’re holding your new book and a friend comes up and asks what you’re reading. DON’T PANIC!

You don’t have to give a detailed explanation like: “Oh its a book about fucking myself and it has a dildo and lube inside.” Of course you can say that if you want to, but then shes going to want to see you in action.

Its just a book-you’re just reading a book. It may be the best book you’ve ever read, it may open up doors that you’ve been afraid to open, and it may give you hours and hours of pleasure, but feel free to keep it to yourself.

You can say something like: “Oh its a novel about doors, a very boring architectural history thing actually.”

Or you can be somewhat less creative and say something like: “NOTHING! ITS NOTHING! ITS NOT EVEN A BOOK, I MEAN, IT IS A BOOK. ITS A TERRIBLE BOOK. LEAVE ME ALONE!”

If that sounds like something you might say you need to learn to relax. Relaxation is a very big part of this.

Remember boys-Learning is FUNdamental.

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Men In Thongs

What kind of men prefer thongs rather than panties?

Bankers, accountants and writers mostly, and I have no idea why. Maybe they like to show off for their friends? Maybe they like a day long wedgie?

Or maybe, they found a combination thong and panty with the cutest little jingly bells on them. Maybe they found ones that come in 17 colors with a choice of 7 trim colors, or maybe they like just like the refreshing breeze on their little butt.

Little Love Panties

In the motorcycle world there is a thing called target fixation. Target fixation is when the brain is focused so intently on an object that awareness of other obstacles or hazards can diminish. The observer can become so fixated on the target that they will forget to take the necessary action to avoid it, thus colliding with the object.

This might just be the real explanation. A thong may give your friends target fixation, which is great for those with bad eyesight or lousy aim (such as many bankers, accountants and writers for example).

Target fixation

Target fixation can be very helpful under the right circumstances.

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Bedtime Feminization II

I want you to Say this mantra with me, and when you hear the word girl, remember that you are a petite skinny submissive.

I am a woman.

A beautiful woman.

My male ego is gone. Totally and completely gone.

All my problems and cares have left with my male ego.

My only thought or care is how I become more feminine.

I have let it go.

It is OK to be feminine.

It is OK if people think I am a girl.

I am girlish because I am a girl.

I want people to know that I am a girl.

I am totally and completely a girl.

Because I am a girl, I can act like a girl.

It is so absolutely wonderful to be a girl.

I am not doing anything wrong.

Being feminine makes me happy.

MY Breasts and nipples are a vital part of my sexuality.

It is OK to dress like a girl, because I am a girl.

You will memorize this mantra and repeat to yourself daily.

I want you to dream about this mantra.

I want you to believe with all your heart and all your soul, every single word.

I want you to live it.

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Favorite Things is now available

Your Mother and I have been talking about you dressing up in her clothes, and we feel that an intervention is needed. This is the perfect time to try out a new technique to help you come clean…

A short preview is here

The written story is here

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The trouble with Dave

I don’t know if you’re aware of it but I have an advice column called Go Ask Teresa. I encourage anyone with a question or problem about their fetish to ask me for help, advice and encouragement.

I recently got an email from a guy named Dave. He seems a bit upset, and this is his problem:

Dave: “Help me Teresa-I’m so torn about my fetish I don’t know what to do! All I think about is being dressed up as a girl and its just insane! I’m a big guy, I work out, have a job at a construction site, and women seem to be attracted to me. But the only things that turns me on are forced feminization fantasies. I know it crazy but I just can’t help it. And the more embarrassing and humiliating the more exciting it is. I’m starting to think I’m losing my mind. Is there a way to get rid of these fantasies or maybe change them somehow?”

Now does Dave really have a problem? He feels he does so maybe he does. I asked him a couple of questions to clarify the issue:

Me: “When you say an embarrassing fantasy, do you mean like getting caught in panties by a group of women you know? Or maybe being blackmailed and taken to the beauty salon for a complete makeover? Or dressed in panties, stockings, a babydoll nightie, and tied to a bed? Or dressed up in an adorable sissy dress and forced to be a sissy maid at a party?”

Dave: “Yes-yes and there are so many more! What do I do, please help me!”

Me: “OK, OK calm down. The first thing you have to do is shave your legs. You can wear a cute long sleeve blouse or maid uniform but eventually you’ll want to shave your arms too. You’ll have to buy your own clothes so they fit properly. Next, you need to set some limits, choose a safe word. You may think you want your eyebrows shaved off but they take a long time to actually grow back. Can you walk in high heels?”

Dave: “Yes but I’m not sure I really want it to happen. Sure I’ve been dreaming about it for about 25 years, but isn’t it just crazy for a man to want to be feminized and humiliated? I’ve gone through my whole life trying to avoid even the smallest embarrassing situation. Last week I hit my finger with a hammer, I mean bad, and the only thing I could think of was did anyone see me.”

Me: “Its roleplay Dave. Think of it like a play you’re going to put on. The audience can be as small as one understanding woman. The most important thing is to get comfortable with your fetish. Its not like you’re going to frame a house wearing a bright pink sissy dress, stockings, heels, a wig and full makeup.”

Dave: “OK let me ask you one more question. Are there pockets on that dress for nails and stuff?”

Well I guess he was kidding about the nails, because everyone knows that a pocket is not enough. You need a tool belt, preferably in pink with little bows and lace on it.

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