People wear a gag for a variety of reasons. When combined with other physical restraints, wearing a gag can increase the wearer’s sense of helplessness.
The type of gag used will depend on the individuals taste and the type of roleplay scene. Some gags are designed to fill the mouth, while others are designed to provide access to the mouth by forcing the mouth open.
A ball gag is usually made of rubber or silicone in the shape of a ball, obviously, with a strap passing through it. In use, the ball is strapped into the mouth with the straps going around the head to secure it in place.
A ball gag’s purpose is more of humiliation rather than silence; the wearer can still be heard, but it renders their speech more or less completely unintelligible.
Example: “Are you alright sweetheart?”
“Mggawer!! Halawawafleber-caccasee, aa-bo?”
After a while though, you can pretty much understand what they’re trying to say, kind of like a dentist.
This young man demonstrates proper use of a silicone ball gag. Cute isn’t he?
Note: consider a safe hand signal or learn sign language to pause or stop the action if it gets too intense. You’ll be happy you did.
Of course your arms may also be cuffed or bound, in which case you are completely helpless.
Now is that what you really want?