I’ll bet you’ve asked yourself this question, many times. As usual I have some suggestions.
If you have a job chances are you work with all different kinds of women. Single women, married women, lonely women, and sexy women. This is the perfect place to look.
The women you work with are probably hard working, friendly people. Just what you need.
The first thing to do is become friends with them. When they think about you or talk about you over coffee you want them to say: “He’s really a very sweet guy.”
How do you achieve that you ask? Slowly. Your goal is to be friendly and attentive without being creepy.
Step 1: Compliments. The idea here is to be casual, and not needy or falling all over these poor girls. Mention things about their appearance. Most women spend hours buying clothes and doing their hair and makeup, and will genuinely appreciate the right kind of compliment.
You might say: “Is that a new hairstyle, it looks great on you.” Even if its not you’re off to a good start. If she says no, you now have the opportunity to say something like: “Oh, well you look great today as usual.” Then smile and walk away.
Compliments about their lipstick or heels might freak them out so stick to their appearance, perfume, or even their smile. Remember, don’t push it. Say something nice and go back to work. Its very important that you do this right.
You should also offer to pick things up for them while you’re out on your lunch break. Simply mention that you’re on your way out and ask if anyone would like anything from the store.
Step 2: The Plan. This will take some nerve and talent but don’t let that stop you. Go over it in your mind until you have the whole thing down cold.
Not only are you a very sweet guy, but you’ve decided to go back to college at night to improve yourself. One of the courses is in Abnormal Psychology and you can really use the help of some female friends.
You’ve been assigned a study of fetishes, cross dressing in particular, and have to complete a long paper by the end of the term. Having an extended deadline is great because you’ll need to take this slow once again.
You can begin by mentioning it as casually as possible, then leave it alone unless asked, and even then its good to let the topic get around for a while.
At some point you should approach the woman you feel the most comfortable with and ask for help. Don’t worry, by the end of the day every women in your office, factory, or sardine canning plant will know all about this.
You want to know how women feel about cross dressing (its for the paper). Do they think its strange? Do they think it might be fun? Ask them how they think a person could develop such a deep desire to wear women’s clothes.
You want to just ask a quick question here and there and gauge the reaction. A little at a time, just like the way you want to be feminized. Unless the ladies have a lot of free time during the day, which is very possible, don’t push too hard. After all, this is just one of the many things you’re working on including your job.
Later on, you bring up forced feminization.
“Forced Feminization, gosh whats that?” they ask so innocently you want to break down and kiss their stockinged feet. DON’T. It will just mess up all the hard work you’ve put into this.
You can say something like: “I was doing some research online and apparently some men have a fantasy about being forced to dress like a girl. Silly isn’t it?”
Now, if you’ve played your cards right you should have at least one woman interested, if only out of sheer curiosity. If you feel confident, think about pointing her to a reference book or website.
This whole thing may seem very complicated and extreme to you. Just as blackmailing you into becoming a complete sissy maid may seem to them.
If everything goes right you may just get lucky. One day you and a beautiful secretary are discussing the merits of silk scarves over rope for bondage, and the next you’re in her living room wearing her blouse!
À cheval donné on ne regarde pas les dents!