The King

I was looking forward to the Flea market/craft show that was scheduled to be held today on the Columbia-Wrightsville Bridge. Due to rain it was postponed until Saturday October 15th.

With nothing to do and all day to do it, we took a ride to Lake Clarke. Lots of sailboats, kayaks and canoes out despite the weather. On the way home I noticed an interesting statue overlooking the water.

“Go back I wanna take a picture.”

“It’s just a statue Teresa. And besides, it’s private property.

“Just a statue? It’s a statue of a half naked man holding a spear (trident). And that man is a Greek God!”

Yes, yes, it’s King Neptune, but the light is bad and it’s raining. You’re really a bit obsessed with photography aren’t you?

“It’s my hobby and it gives me pleasure. Have I ever asked you why you like to dress up as a girl and prance around the house?”

“Well yes, yes you have. And I don’t prance, it’s more like……ok, I prance. Hey, after this do you want to run across the bridge naked?”

“Definitely not.”

Ten minutes and 20 pictures later we left and headed home. He was right of course, the light wasn’t good and it was just a statue. But one day down the road, when my doctor sits me down and tells me I only have 10 years left to live, I’ll probably look back on my life and wish I did more.

I’ll probably wish I took off my clothes and ran across that bridge with a good friend, not worrying about the rain or getting arrested. Its only life after all.

The King

The King


“If we could see the miracle of a single flower clearly, our whole life would change.” Buddha

Photo shot in a local park. Sony RX100. ISO 125. Aperture priority f/4. 1/800 sec. Daylight white balance.

March 11, 2016, 2:59 pm. Tripod(s) sitting on a table at home. Motorcycle waiting patiently nearby.

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Spring 2016

Spring 2016

The Parents Guide to Buying Bras

Ah, if only your Mother had this guide when you were just a little girl. But even though you’re all gown up you’re probably still wearing the wrong bra. Did you know that an estimated 85% of men wear a bra that doesn’t fit properly?

Here are important answers to important questions such as:

  • When should my daughter first be fitted?
  • Why does she need a bra?
  • What should I be looking for when choosing a first bra for my daughter?
  • What’s the difference between a padded and a moulded foam bra?
  • What type of bra should my daughter wear during PE?
  • What if my daughter is feeling shy about having a bra fitting?

Plus four great examples of the right bra for the right reason. Be sure to check out Mish Online for great bras, lingerie, swimwear, and a very easy to understand bra fitting guide.

Parents Guide to Buying Bras

Choices, choices, choices

Choices, choices, choices

The Best Sissy Training Device 2015

Voted first place by The National Sissy Association, this sissy training device will give you the confidence you need to perform like a pro when the occasion arises (and I mean that literally).

Enough said, see for yourself:

See The Sissy Training Device Here

The Sissy Training Device 2015

See The Sissy Training Device Here

Teaching the Sissy to Focus

Teaching a sissy is not all about curtseys and spankings you know? Sometimes they want to learn new things, and I’m happy to teach them if they behave themselves.

Today I took my friend to the park for a lesson. He’s very good at learning and paying attention, but sometimes he has trouble focusing. So to make it easy we went and shot flowers with my camera.

Not only did he learn about aperture, but also how to work on a RAW file in Lightroom and Photoshop. He had virtually no experience with either but was very motivated. I promised him that if he took at least one decent photo I’d take him to the mall for a new dress.

These are two out of about 60 shots of all different kinds of young flowers. I don’t know the name of this one but I thought it was the prettiest. The first was shot in Aperture Priority at 1.8. Click on the thumbnails to see the whole thing.

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Click To See Larger Image

This next one was shot in Aperture Priority at 2.8. A bit more detail but still with that dreamy effect you get shooting almost wide open.

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Click To See Larger Image

I think these are fantastic photos for someone that drank a huge cup of coffee and did not use a tripod, but he had a brilliant teacher and more important, patience. The light was not great although soft light usually works well with flowers.

Later this afternoon we’ll go in search of the perfect flower print dress for him, maybe a maxi dress which are on sale everywhere now. Something like this wrapped front floral print maxi dress, which is not only sold out but its $90. Plus we need more cowbell, I mean purple.

Wrapped Front Floral Print Maxi Dress

Wrapped Front Floral Print Maxi Dress

Lingerie Shopping Tips For Men That Wear Lingerie

You’ve probably seen articles about helping men buy lingerie, and some might be useful to you. The only thing about these tips is that they assume you’re buying the lingerie for someone else, and this can lead to problems, especially when you get flustered in a crowded store.

Lets look at some advice from experts and see how it applies to you.

From Luisa Loveday Founder Loveday London: “My best advice would be to spend time finding out about your partner and her style: girly, bondage, soft, hard, light, bright or dark, and then be sure to match her taste as best as you can.”

The fact that your partner likes the exact same style as you and wears the same size may be hard to explain.

From Fleur Turner CEO and founder Fleur of England: “Is she romantic? Does she like silk? Does she like lace? What colors does she wear?”

So far this advice sounds great, but can you remain cool calm and collected as you talk about silk and lace while holding a pretty babydoll nightie?

From Lucy Litwack Managing director Coco de Mer: “It is important the male customer feels at ease in the store.”

AHA! This is the key. You need to be brave, have confidence that you can comfortably browse all the pretty things, and buy whatever you like in your size. This is intimidating for most of you and many never make it into the store. Of course you can order online but you’ll miss a unique experience, not to mention how great it feels to conquer your fears.

I have an 11 minute recording that I made specifically for crossdressers that want to walk into any lingerie store as easily as walking into a McDonalds. Its called Lingerie Shopping Made Easy and its now free.

Put it on your iPod and listen on the way to the mall. It will be like I’m sitting right there giving you a pep talk.

Remember, the only thing you have to fear is fear itself. That, and maybe having to fight a large woman over the last pair of adorable boy shorts that are on sale.

Lingerie Shopping Made Easy Free MP3

Lingerie Shopping Made Easy Free MP3

Lingerie Shopping Made Easy Free MP3

Prescription Panties

It seems that a lot of you guys feel confused, anxious, and sometimes depressed about your crossdressing desires. You have a ball dressing up, and then get all stressed out later on. Have you ever wondered why?

Of course when you were younger there were definite reasons to be confused and anxious. What if your friends find out? Why are you so obsessed with wearing women’s clothes? Is this wrong? But now that you’re all grown up you know some of these answers, at least I hope you do.

You know that this is not wrong, and really not that unusual at all. As to worrying about your friends and partner finding out, that’s something you have to work out on your own.

I think that wearing panties is not the problem. Its NOT wearing them. How do you expect to feel when you dress up in secret, locking all the doors and pulling down the blinds like a criminal? Then, to make things even more complicated, you hide them somewhere and then worry about them being found.

I suggest you consider Prescription Panties. Its not the panties as much as the prescription, which is: P.R.N-wear as needed.

Now, when is wearing panties needed?

When you feel anxious and depressed for one. Did you know that a hangover is not caused by the alcohol in your body but by the absence of alcohol? Same thing here (kinda/sorta). If you take away things that make you feel good you’ll have withdrawals.

Having a rough day at work? Duck into the bathroom and put on those panties. Not only will you feel great, but you’ll forget about the trivial thing that is making your day so rough.

Anxious about the Mother in law coming over for the weekend? Wear your favorite panties and pantyhose under your jeans. Smile, and tell her how good she looks when she tells you again about all the other guys your wife could have married.

Feeling lonely and depressed because you’re all alone on a Friday night? Dress to thrill. Break out everything and practice walking in heels. Pretend you’re a model, work on that catwalk strut.

Remember though, this is a prescription and should be followed carefully, although as needed varies tremendously.

Science is a wonderful thing, and the best part is that it can be interpreted any way you want. Now get dressed!

Prescription Panties

Prescription Panties

Crossdresser and Fem Dom resources including virtual makeovers, lingerie, sissy stories and assignments

I was going through the friends page on my website to check for broken links, and many of the sites listed are gone. So I’ve updated everything and I think you’ll find some unique places to visit.

For example, do you know how to make boobs? The link is right there under Blogs, Guides and Stories.

Among a wealth of information including photo galleries, transformation salons, crossdressing captions and Shibari Art Photography, are must know lingerie resources.

Do you know where to find garter belt panties? Well look carefully and you soon will.

If you do find a link that no longer works please let me know. If you have a related website or blog you would like listed contact me.

Strapped In Silk Friends Page

Crossdresser and Fem Dom resources including virtual makeovers, lingerie, sissy stories and assignments

Crossdresser and Fem Dom resources including virtual makeovers, lingerie, sissy stories and assignments

Candy gets a makeover

Now I know how much you love lipstick. In your fantasy, when the girls at the salon finally apply your bright red lipstick, you just want to explode don’t you? You do, I know you do!

Don’t be embarrassed Candy girl, lipstick is a very powerful thing.

Did you know that women have been wearing lipstick for thousands of years? And lipstick has always been associated with femininity.

At one time women who didn’t wear lipstick were suspected of being mentally ill, or even of being a lesbian!

All girls love to wear lipstick honey, and you’re no different. It’s OK, really….

NOTE: This 48 minute MP3 is free to any of my friends on Google+. Read the story, listen to the preview, and contact me through my website if you would like a copy. Include a link to your Google+ profile page.


An Afternoon with Miss Teresa

An Afternoon with Miss Teresa

Sissy Training For Dummies

One day you’ll be reading your local newspaper and there it is, the ad you’ve been waiting for your whole life.


Now what?

In just 12 simple steps you can learn to be the perfect sissy maid.

You will be punished regardless, but you’ll love every single second of it.

Sissy Training For Dummies

Sissy Training For Dummies

He’s a Backdoor Man

Have you read any good books lately? Something stimulating that actually made you feel special? Those books can be very hard to find, much like your G-spot.

What exactly is a G-spot you may ask? A guy’s G-Spot, also known as the P-Spot, is his prostate gland. That’s the gland responsible for producing the majority of his seminal fluid, and it’s also one of his most sensitive erogenous zones.

Sounds complicated doesn’t it? Maybe you need a book.


Book Smart: The Other Door

Book Smart: The Other Door

OK great, so now you have a book, butt wait….there’s more. Inside this very special book is everything you need to put your new knowledge to practical use.

This is not your average book though, it comes with training beads, a soft and pliable butt-plug (not too big and not too small), a set of anal beads, and even a packet of water-based lube.

The Other Door anal starter kit

The Other Door anal starter kit

Butt wait….there’s more. This is impressive; the book is actually the stash! It looks like a normal book, but it has a magnetic clasp and holds everything neatly and out of sight until you’re ready to learn and explore.

Ain't technology wonderful?

Ain’t technology wonderful?

Now I’d like to leave you with a final thought. Lets say you’re holding your new book and a friend comes up and asks what you’re reading. DON’T PANIC!

You don’t have to give a detailed explanation like: “Oh its a book about fucking myself and it has a dildo and lube inside.” Of course you can say that if you want to, but then shes going to want to see you in action.

Its just a book-you’re just reading a book. It may be the best book you’ve ever read, it may open up doors that you’ve been afraid to open, and it may give you hours and hours of pleasure, but feel free to keep it to yourself.

You can say something like: “Oh its a novel about doors, a very boring architectural history thing actually.”

Or you can be somewhat less creative and say something like: “NOTHING! ITS NOTHING! ITS NOT EVEN A BOOK, I MEAN, IT IS A BOOK. ITS A TERRIBLE BOOK. LEAVE ME ALONE!”

If that sounds like something you might say you need to learn to relax. Relaxation is a very big part of this.

Remember boys-Learning is FUNdamental.

Check out Book Smart: The Other Door at Strapped In Silk Bondage, Fetish & Kink Sex Toys

Bedtime Feminization II

I want you to Say this mantra with me, and when you hear the word girl, remember that you are a petite skinny submissive.

I am a woman.

A beautiful woman.

My male ego is gone. Totally and completely gone.

All my problems and cares have left with my male ego.

My only thought or care is how I become more feminine.

I have let it go.

It is OK to be feminine.

It is OK if people think I am a girl.

I am girlish because I am a girl.

I want people to know that I am a girl.

I am totally and completely a girl.

Because I am a girl, I can act like a girl.

It is so absolutely wonderful to be a girl.

I am not doing anything wrong.

Being feminine makes me happy.

MY Breasts and nipples are a vital part of my sexuality.

It is OK to dress like a girl, because I am a girl.

You will memorize this mantra and repeat to yourself daily.

I want you to dream about this mantra.

I want you to believe with all your heart and all your soul, every single word.

I want you to live it.

Listen Here

Bedtime Feminization II at

Bedtime Feminization II at

Favorite Things is now available

Your Mother and I have been talking about you dressing up in her clothes, and we feel that an intervention is needed. This is the perfect time to try out a new technique to help you come clean…

A short preview is here

The written story is here

Favorite Things-a crossdressing intervention

Favorite Things MP3 at

About a week back

Back pain is so common that it affects up to 90% of people at some point in their lifetime. Now, if you are among the 10% that have never experienced this consider yourself very lucky.

There are many causes of back pain and much of it can be blamed on our lifestyle. Most of you sit all day at work, then sit some more on the drive home, then sit down to dinner, then sit on the couch and watch TV.

In the caveman days you were out hunting, fighting giant dinosaurs and clubbing women over the head so you were much more fit. But now the dinosaurs are gone, many women frown of being clubbed, and if you do hunt you probably sit in a tree stand and watch Ted Nugent on a portable TV while waiting for poor Bambi to become your next meal.

What to do, what to do? I don’t know if you’re aware of it, but they make special garments to improve your posture and help relieve back pain. You’ll walk taller, feel better, and your friends will wonder why you seem like a new person.

What do these special garments look like Miss Teresa? Are they soft and silky? Can I wear them under my normal clothes without everyone knowing? Do they come in different colors to match my work shirts? 

Oh yes. They’re made of soft satin, they come in 15 different colors, and will not only improve your posture but your whole outlook on life.

Tip: if anyone asks, this is not a corset. It’s a special garment to help a medical condition. The fact that its gorgeous, made in shiny, soft satin, and trimmed in lace is just because women make them and they want you to feel as pretty as they do.

Feminine Voice Techniques

Some of you wish you could sound more like a woman don’t you? Once you’re all dressed up in your finest lingerie you look into the mirror, blow yourself a little kiss, and say something like: “Oh I’m a pretty girl, yes I am.”

But it may not be convincing because you sound like Tony Soprano, especially if you’re from New Jersey. Of course with enough practice you can learn to change your voice, the tone, and the way you speak. But like any new skill this takes time and practice, and also has some inherent danger that you may not have considered.

Lets say you master the technique and can now talk like a woman whenever you want to. You makes videos for you tube, call friends, and maybe even phone in to the home shopping channel just to hear yourself talk about the blouse you ordered on the air. So far you’re having a ball.

Then one day after work you stop at your local bar for a quick beer. The bartender asked you what you’ll have and without thinking you say in your feminine voice: “I’d like one of those drinks with the cute little umbrellas please. Oh and can I have a pink umbrella to match my panties?”

This can be trouble, especially if your boss and co workers are sitting next to you. Its like your Mother warned you-keep taking like that and one day it will come out at the worst time.

But as usual I have a practical suggestion. Why not focus on learning to moan like a woman having an orgasm while you’re having your own orgasm? You don’t need to remember a lot of words and practice will be its own reward.

I happen to have an example of a real 50 second orgasm for you to listen to, download, and learn from. Yes, 50 seconds is not very long, and if you have a longer one please contact me and I’ll see if we can get you into the Guinness Book of World Records.

Good luck and remember, Its in the way that you use it, it comes and it goes.

The Mistress Is Pleased MP3

What I’ve learned in 3000 miles

I bought my motorcycle in late February, and began riding in March. Since then I’ve managed to put over 3000 miles on it and am having a ball. I have yet to get a speeding ticket or dump the bike, but I’m realizing that its time to take less chances and slow down a bit.

These are a few things I’ve learned:

A lot of people ride with shorts, sandals, and a t-shirt. Yes, its been very hot and its very tempting, but I try to wear my jacket with protection, long pants, gloves and a helmet every time. (I’ve been wearing sneakers lately but am buying shoes that are a compromise called Kickers, made by Shift)

People have asked me if I am hot in all that gear. So far I haven’t smacked anyone or even screamed at them, but  even a fall out of a coffee shop with beachwear could be a bloody mess so fuck em.

I’ve had several close calls with people pulling out in front of me so now I do a few things I didn’t do before. I look both ways at lights and wait a second rather than try to beat the turning cars.  I try to slow down approaching blind curves just in case. And when I do play Evel Knievel and go 80 or 90 miles per hour, I pick the roads carefully.

I was watching a young couple practice in a park the other day and suddenly the girl fell. Turns out they had just come from The Motorcycle Safety course and wanted to get in some practice. She was riding a very old, very large Honda and got overconfident. She was just shaken up but I hope they paid more attention on the second day.

Really its a matter of riding within your ability and recognizing the risk. If you are crazy enough to speed past 3 Harley’s doing 80……uh, never mind that. Yes, its dangerous. Unlike a car you are not belted in, have no big shatterproof windshield, and are riding on 2 very small tires. A sudden stop for a dog in the road or an asshole cutting across lanes at even 55 mph can be fatal.

But do I let the threat of permanent disfigurement, paralysis, broken bones, or brain injury stop me from enjoying a fantastic sport? NO! There are many things in life that are dangerous and most can be made safer with training and awareness.



So you want to be feminized?

How do I get my girlfriend to dress me as her maid and spank me?

Or: Where can I find a group of cheerleaders to kidnap me, and force me to become one of them?

Or: I want to be a sissy slut, 24/7 and work the streets, why does my girlfriend think this is strange?

I hear this kind of thing all the time. You have to realize that your fantasy has been developing for years, and you cant just spring it on someone as if they’ve been following your thoughts like a mind reader.

First of all, you have to start SLOW! You might want to spend some time exploring HER fantasies and fetishes. She may not be willing to share, but at least you tried, and showed an interest in her.  Maybe she has a fantasy about being a pimp. And she wants to dress her whores as slutty as possible, then punish them! Ever think of that?

OK, that’s a long shot, but my point is that most fetishes have something in common. They’re about Dominance and submission. Rather than demand that she puts you in panties, you may want to try suggesting that you love her and worship her. And that you are willing to please her in any and every way she asks.

Most likely she will tell you to clean out the garage and then cook dinner, but its a start. Maybe the next night she will ask you to suck on her toes.

After that, if you’re any good, you can graduate to being a pussy eating sub. A toy to be used as she sees fit.  An object for her amusement!

Once you establish your position as a submissive, it becomes much more likely for you to be dressed in a maids outfit, or a really sexy, silk dress, or even a cheerleader costume complete with pom-poms.

Remember-its all about her, and if by coincidence you are eventually put in panties, then it becums a win-win situation.

Be creative. It never hurts to try but you want to maximize your chances by being smart about the whole thing.

An educated sissy is a happy sissy!

Pretty Please!

Pretty Please!

Go Ask Teresa – Fear!

B: I really, really want to order your Beauty School CD Miss Teresa, but I cant risk having it sent to my house! I am so afraid of my wife finding out! I only go to your website when she’s not home, and then I clear all the history! Now she’s been asking me why I’m doing this! I have to have it-its my complete fantasy! What can I do?

Me: GET A GRIP! What are ya, a sissy? Oh yea. How old are ya kid?

B: I’ll be 47 next month.

Me: Listen kid, I have a plan. Now shut up and pay attention. First of all its a download, not an actual CD that would be sent to your house. I send it to your email, see?

B: Oh, I didn’t realize that. But my wife!


Now the first thing ya wanna do is download Firefox. You can have it clear your history every time you sign off, it even asks ya?

B: But…


Now you’re gonna get an email in another name see? They’re all free, just pick a name and remember it. If ya want, ya can write the name and password in a book that nobody reads, get it?

B: Yes Miss Teresa.

Me: You can use a credit card, or if you’re still yeller, an e-check. No traces. Then I send the file to this email that nobody knows about, see?

B: Wow you’re really good at this.

Me: Yea, I been around.

B: But what about downloading and saving the file? How can I hide it?

Me: Here’s what you’re gonna do. Ya download it when no ones around, and save it in a folder. Ya name the folder like another one, but add a letter. Then you put that folder in a different folder that never gets used, see?

B: But what if she finds it and listens?

Me: Ok, lets play it safe. Ya burn it onto a blank CD and stash it somewhere. Drive out to the dessert, get comfy and play it in your car.

B: Not bad, you’re very sneaky.

Me: Thanks kid, but I’m only helpin ya cause this stuff is harmless. So ya like to wear panties and prance around like Cinderella? Who gives a flyin rats ass?

B: My wife actually.

Me: YER A SISSY! Oh yea, that’s what this is about huh? Well, there ya go kid. Now ya can have a party in your pants. Play some pocket pool, adjust the antenna, baste the ham, badger the witness, buff the banana, cuff the carrot, flog the dolphin, milk the moose, oil the glove, rope the pony, yank the yo-yo, knock yourself out.

Just one more thing. Yer not gonna do anything illegal are ya? Anything strange or sick?

B: Oh Lord no Miss Teresa, I just want to wear pretty things and act like a beautiful girl.

Me: That’s what I figured. This conversation never took place, ya hear? Now go grow a pair.

B: Thank you Miss Teresa, but I don’t want to grow a pair because…


Go Ask Teresa: Crossdressing advice, help and insight

Go Ask Teresa: Crossdressing advice, help and insight

Disclaimer: I do not normally talk like this. I am in no way encouraging anyone to do anything illegal or immoral. Its just that in my experience many crossdressers do not want their friends and family discovering their little fetish. Right Mr. Madoff?